In Mommy's Arms

These photos were taken on Tuesday, December 4th, when for the first time, Becky was able to hold her son. It was a special bonding experience for both of them. Becky said there were moments when his eyes were open that they just stared into each other's souls. I think it must have been like that connection between spirits when so much is communicated without any words being spoken.

Christopher is lying on a pillow on Mommy's lap...

...where she can snuggle him close and kiss his cheek.

A day of bonding...

... for mother and son.

By the way, Emily got her wish and was able to share part of her birthday with Christopher by opening one gift in NICU.

Got Milk?

Becky got to hold Christopher for the first time today--not just pick him up--but really HOLD him ... for a LONG time. Evidently, all of mom's lovin' snuggles improved his little appetite because his feedings were DOUBLE that of yesterday! He's chuggin' about 50 cc's per feeding now (almost two ounces) which is plenty for a five-day-old. It was even enough to qualify for removal of the "turkey baster". Check back later tonight as Robert & Becky will be adding their own post to this blog WITH photos, of course.

Fifth and Two

Babies with wires are hard to hold...
...and tricky to feed.
Doing so good, baby Rud!
Gotta' love the heart-shaped bandages!

It may be Christopher's fifth day in NICU, but it is only day two for his mommy. Becky is painfully sore and deprived of sufficient rest, but her thoughts and concerns are directed towards her newborn son. She looks unbelievably good, despite it all, and exhibits her usual cheery disposition. Christopher is progressing everyday! The nurses have already removed one of his tubes that is no longer necessary. Although he still appears to have quite an array of connectors, most of the wires at this point are standard monitors. One checks his heart rate; one, his body temperature; an IV in his hand provides antibiotics and other necessary fluids; and he even has a little "turkey baster" to keep him nice and plump. (I don't know the technical term, but I liked Becky's name for it.) His bowels are functioning much better and he is having no problems sucking or swallowing--all GOOD SIGNS!!!! He has only lost three ounces, which is phenomenal! (Generally, a healthy newborn loses 5-7% of their birth weight in the first couple of days and over 10% before the doctors have need for concern.) The next big milestone will be complete healing of the surgical wound on his spine. At that point, he can be snuggled in a blanket and removed from under the current heating elements. Tomorrow is Emily's 11th birthday, and she wants nothing more than to spend it with her baby brother in NICU. In fact, her wish is to open at least one present in his company...if the nurses will allow it. It was just about as difficult for her to leave Christopher tonight as it was for her mom, but Emily handled it well...because she's a mature almost-eleven-year-old big sister!

Reunited

Home Again

If you are like me, you can't wait to hear about Becky's reunion with Christopher. As I chatted with her tonight, she sounded so good! She has some burning pain on one side of her incision, but she is as perky and happy as ever. I'm sure there is comfort in being home again--but there is also a strange absence--someone in the family is missing. When Robert first took Becky in to see their new baby, Christopher was in the midst of tears, but his cries suddenly quieted when he recognized the sound of his mother's voice. It's an amazing thing, the bond between mother and child, and I have a feeling that Christopher Rudger Etchells knows EXACTLY who his mommy is. For hours she gently hugged him, kissed him, talked to him, even changed him ... and now, she will dream of him...until she can be with him again ... tomorrow. p.s. Christopher has been shifted from his tummy to his side. If everything goes well, he should be home in one more week!

The Shortest Distance Between Two Points

Christopher was born at Shawnee Mission Medical Center

Christopher's surgeries and recovery are taking place at

The Children's Mercy Hospital

She did it! As soon as she possibly could, Becky got her staples out, was released from the hospital, and went STRAIGHT to her baby boy who is recovering at The Children's Mercy Hospital in Kansas City. The entire family is there with him celebrating the successes of this week. I can't imagine having a better team cheering one on through life than Christopher has. The Etchells Family, friends, and relatives, are a pretty incredible collection of amazing individuals.

The Significance of the Frog

My son, Daniel, asked me last night what the deal is with the frog. He wondered if it was because Christopher's little legs are folded under his tummy like he's ready to jump. Cute! Those of you who know Becky well, and even those of you who don't, probably realize that "cute" comes easily for her. Each of Robert and Becky's children have had a special animal from the time they were babies. Emily recieved lots of teddy bears, James was their little monkey, Spencer's signature animal was the giraffe, and Christopher...well, now you know why his blog is green.